- Posted by Matthew on June 8, 2008
Often when we meet with a couple to discuss their invitations, the groom will comment that the invites are the brides department, and he's just there for support, or to drive, or to guard the purses.
But once in a while, there is that random guy who after sitting quietly for the first few minutes of the consultation suddenly becomes interested in the discussion, perhaps about how his name should be displayed, or how the monogram should look. Before you know it, he's very involved in paper choices, colors, size, shape, artwork and the works!
This is an open invitation to all grooms out there from a guy who knows: You can help design the invite, (as long as ms. bride says it's ok) and it can actually be enjoyable. We find that we have the most fun with couples that have an equal share in designing the look and feel of their wedding stationery. In fact, you may find that this is one of the few areas where you MAY be allowed to have some actual input and influence...
Besides, if your lovely bride chooses to purchase her invitations in the DIY Kit format, you're probably going to be helping with the assembly. So you might as well put together an invitation that you had a part in designing!
Anyway, I just wanted to dispell the rumors that may be floating around that the invitations have to be "the brides department." Both of you can have a share in designing your invite. Remember, this is the first and perhaps the last thing most of your guests will see before the actual wedding. Wouldn't it be nice if both the bride and the grooms personalities are reflected in the design?